To figure out what was really happening behind the clichés, I'd learned, meant a practice of looking not at the center but at the edges of things–at the unlikeliest and weakest people, not the most apparently powerful. It meant asking lots of stupid questions, making room for inconvenient facts that didn't fit a schema, and trying to remain honest about what I didn't know. Sara Miles
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In this quote, the author explains that sometimes we look for what is obvious instead of looking at the plain facts. If we do this, we may be missing important information that is not as plain as it appears to be. This can lead to a lot of trouble and a lack of understanding about the situation. The author also advises us to look at the outer edges of things and to ask a lot of stupid questions. This advice gives us a chance to be open-minded and even find things out that would otherwise have been missed.

Source: Take This Bread: A Radical Conversion

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